Management for your fearful dog at the holidays

Create a Safe Haven for Your Dog

It’s perfectly okay for a shy or anxious dog to skip out on social gatherings. Set up a quiet, comfortable space in a separate room where your dog can relax away from the hustle and bustle. Include cozy bedding and their favorite toys (if safe). To help drown out party noise, consider playing white noise or soothing music, such as light jazz, classical, or reggae. If your dog is comfortable joining the gathering, still provide a retreat area where they can escape if things become overwhelming.

Advocate for Your Fearful Dog

Fearful dogs may be uncomfortable with direct eye contact or sudden touch. Inform your guests beforehand to avoid interacting with your dog until you give the green light. Pay attention to your dog’s body language and let them initiate contact. Guests should gently pet the side of your dog’s body rather than reaching over their head or attempting to pick them up.

Instead of having guests offer treats directly from their hands—which might put your dog in a stressful situation—suggest they toss treats on the floor or away from themselves. If your dog hesitates to approach, toss the treat farther away or pause treat-giving altogether.

Use Calming Aids 

Products like dog appeasing pheromones can help ease your dog’s anxiety. Options such as Adaptil sprays, collars, and plug-in diffusers are worth trying—spray bedding or use the diffuser in their resting area.

There are also many calming treats on the market. When choosing one to try, look for ingredients like L-Theanine, Melatonin, Chamomile, L-Tryptophan, and Valerian. Zylkene is another popular ingredient found in prescription diets for anxiety. Vetriscience Composure Treats are frequently recommended by veterinarians.

If considering CBD treats, choose products specifically formulated for dogs that are THC-free, third-party lab tested, and made with superior broad-spectrum CBD in appropriate concentrations.

Provide Enrichment Activities

Activities like licking, chewing, and sniffing can help your dog self-soothe. Offer a favorite treat or enrichment toy before or during the gathering to keep them occupied. LickiMats, Kongs, Toppls, and treat-dispensing puzzles can provide calming, independent play. Ensure your dog has plenty of space to enjoy their treat without interference.

By preparing your dog’s environment and respecting their needs, you can help them feel more secure and supported during social events.